My W is so naive. Spoke to her earlier today about splitting assets and she seriously has no idea. She asked if I was going to buy her out of the house, to which I said no. We should sell it. So she then said ok, can you start looking into what we need to do and speak to agents. I said no, if she wants to do this then she can organize agents and start the process. She has no idea. As if I am going to assist with any of this, it's all her doing so she can do the whole lot. She then asked about our furniture, which she doesn't need and i don't want. So she asked if I was buying her out of that. Again I said no, we will have to sell it all and she can organize it. She then started sounding all sad, and I thought she was about to cry. I told her we don't have to do this, before it gets too final and we sell the house. I told her I want to sell it by late November, as I want to move out.....she doesn't want to sell until February as she thinks we'll get a better price.....I couldn't care less about the money. I think she is realizing how little she has financially and wants to get a bit for the house.....this will get very difficult and messy.
Actually happy making that call today, I'm sick of sitting around being this wimpish fool. She has called all the shots so far, and if she wants to go through with this then I will start pushing her for things to happen.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011