Hi vc, I'm in the north Yorkshire area, it's nice with moors and the east coast close by, it's cold most of the time though!!!
What is the point of having a tattoo of my wife's name on my wedding finger is she wants a divorce? None I say, but your right it shows I've moved on, or at least trying!!
I went out with some friends last night, and 1 guy has been divorced for over 20 Yeats from his 1st wife and is now remarried with kids, and he spoke alot of sense to me, and said things straight from the books really!
He said that as long as I was ok, everything else will follow, if she doesnt want you, there's nothing you can do, just let it go and move on, it's hard yes, but you have to move on for your own good I'm now at that place I think?
He told me to think about me more, what makes me happy, he said dont get angry with om, just let it go, she wants him not me, so why let it get to me, it's her loss, and move on!! It really hit me, he was so right!!
But he also said that I will always love her, always
He bumped into his ex-wife a while ago, and they got talking, they both admitted they should have worked it out somehow, and although both had remarried, they both loved each other still, but you have to move on, it's so sad
It is so sad, but it's time for me to move on
While we were out a saw loads of old friends, and they all commented on how good I looked, weight loss, etc I said thanks, but inside I'm still dying for my wife!!!!
I got a fair amount of female attention, very flattering,and good for confidence, should I date? I dont know? Maybe I should try it? Not sure??
My meetings and my drinking are going good, I feel great, although I do regret not understanding my problems earlier? But that's god's wishes?? Not sure how this benefits my kids at the moment, buy the must be a reason??
Not being with the kids is the hardest, I might have been selfish and drinking too much, but I miss them, I miss the back ground noise? If that makes sense??
So I move on, hold my head high, and try and be positive about everything
