Okay, would like some advice please. What is the most effective way to get over my ex while still co-parenting? I don't want to be unpleasant because of that but at the same time if there weren't any kids, I'd be gone. I would have packed myself, my pets and possibly my granmother and just moved. A nice clean break. Unfortunately that doesn't work in real life so what is the next best thing? So far I have tried to spend as little time as possible with him while trying to act like it doesn't bother me one way or the other when he is present. Is that the best I can hope for?