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Again, listen to what people tell you. She told you.


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Yup, she told me she could be mean. She was right. She certainly has an anger issue. Shrink said that MM knew I was done and wanted to take control and get the last shot in. I should be thankful, and will be soon, that I'm out of a situation that would ultimately be unhealthy for me. So it's time to re-group and put my party pants back on! Do I even own a pair? I'll check my closet.


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Hey, maybe I'm on my way back! I took my daughter to the Pita shop to grab some dinner and found myself flirting with the nice looking Pita lady (yes, I said lady, not girl). When she rang up the bill I said "Wow, that much?" and she itemized the price of the pitas and drinks we bought. I said "Well, you made these pitas with your two lovely hands just for me, so I'm sure they're worth every penny" Her face just lit up with the sweetest smile (as my daughter rolled her eyes). I probably made her night (but not my daughters) and that made mine. Just seeing that I can make a lady smile that way was a pretty powerful medicine. So maybe now I can stop running Muslims off the road to make myself feel better!...uh, just kidding, OK.


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Today I feel like I've been hit by a truck. I've gotta start stretching out these muscles. When I oversleep my body just tightens up. I try to get myself a little extra rest and I end up with a board for a body. It was a really stressful week at work not to mention trying to keep my mind focused. Oh well, what is is. I wanted to go to the racetrack today but half way there it started to pour buckets, so much for that plan. Anyway, another day another...something!


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I'm off to meditation group tonight. To sit in silence for one full hour. Last night was Thanksgiving dinner at my Mom's and it was our first one without my Dad. Thanksgiving was the last celebration he had with us at home last year. Miss U Dad. The previous night I went with Voldemort and kids to some friends for a Thanksgiving dinner. Nice time with friends. For all my FB buddies you can check out my cool pics on the alt. Gotta go, if I'm late I have to meditate while standing on my head.


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Well, my friends have been telling me I should try online dating (yeah, like that's gonna happen!). Anyway, I have perused some of the the sites and have come up with some qualifications for people I would not consider contacting...one step at a time here.
1- she must not be posing on her bed
2- she must be able to spell
3- I don't want to see her motorcycle in her profile picture
4- don't tell me you work out four or more times a week
5- don't spend most of your profile talking about how you don't want threesomes.
6- don't say you are a "simple" woman
7- for God sakes, don't pose with stuffed animals...or with handcuffs!
Well, that's it for now. I think I'm warming up to the idea...or not.


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Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23


A woman going to the gym more than 4 times a week is a bad thing?


Yeah, 'cuz that means they expect that the guy works out that much too...and that ain't me! lol


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Oh, and I'm also striking off my list 40 year old Filipino Muslims...for some strange reason.


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Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23


A Filipino Muslim. There is not such thing. That explains a lot about her. What a walking contradiction!

Filippinos are the most devout Catholics I ever met.


Actually I believe that the Philippines is 5 percent Muslim (largely the Moro tribe, I believe) which surprised me too cuz otherwise it's the most Catholic country on the planet. She's a convert from Catholicism...maybe I should take Catholics off my list too, just to be safe.


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A book I read "Micro Trends" had a section on online dating sites. In 2009, they did a sample of newly marrieds and 17 percent of the marriages that year met online. That's as many as the ones who met at church.

Hey, Wii, just be realistic. The experience is a lot different for men than women. Women get like 10 times the number of emails. It takes time, just like any other way of meeting women.

I like being on the sites just to have something to check occasionally. I've dated one girl off Match. The lady I took to lunch last week was off OKCupid and I'm now exchanging messages through one on Plentyoffish.


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