Rick,
In my divorce support group I am membre of, the experienced members who either are divorced or sep and nearing div have told me that you must be sep 6 mos before you can file, but the 6 mos date can be any date you and s agree upon, iow it could be a made up date.Did she discuss a date with you?

What part of jersey are you in? Sorry that you are here, I am also sep 3 mos June 20th, right near your date,(we also are still in same home) wife is leaving at end of Oct to move to Ohio with sister. I'm sure you agree, the sitch is no fun,


I will read up on your sitch to become more familiar, hang in there!


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!