I don’t have a perspective on a spouse willing to D slowly. STBX has pursued the D with single minded determination. She has almost been obsessive about each step mapped out by her L and D for Dummies book.
Be supportive of her emotions where you can and don’t give away the farm. Seek to reduce the conflict and drama. Approach this within your sense of honor and comport yourself accordingly. When it begins to become angry maintain your bearing. Do nothing to escalate or inflame, seek to mitigate and calm. You’ve survived tougher situations than an angry exchange.
Semper Fidelis
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill
