25 is a very wise woman and has much experience with MLC and mental health issues. It may be overwhelming for you to think about changing your mindset totally, but can you think about making your changes one day at a time, like someone recovering from substance abuse? We ARE recovering, so this approach makes sense.
25,
Your posts always speak to me but the one above ESPECIALLY spoke to me. My XH has a BMF who really interfered in our R as well. I have been very puzzled how the wonderful H I knew then could be so deceived and so loyal to his "sick" BMF. How did you reconcile that aspect of your H's behavior with the H that you know and love? When H left for the tundra, leaving you and his family behind, I would imagine he kept strong ties with BF. How did you reconcile that?
Sorry for the hijack (my question to 25) Tad...........Keep moving forward, Tad.
