I guess your right VC, this is a journey she has to take on her own.
I think after the last few weeks I'm switched off now to her.
I got the kids last night, she was outside when I got them, had a face like thunder and didn't acknowledge me!! HA HA how childish!!
I got the kids and went to the hairdressers, cuts for me and son, and got my little girls hair washed and blow dried!, she looked great and loved the attention.
We then went shopping for my son some clothes, trainers, etc, he was really pleased and we had a great time.
Then out for dinner, it was a warm evening, so we sat outside and watched my daughter on the play area, it was great.
I was sat there with my kids, having a great time, thinking how sad that their mother doesn't want to be part of this?? I don't get that at all??
Then we went to mine and watched a movie, it was a great night!! Wife called the kids to see how they were, they were excited telling her what we had done, and been too, again what must she be thinking??, personally I would be devastated missing out on times like that??? I would want to be part of it!!!
So this morning, son to football and shopping with my daughter I have a tattoo of my wifes name on my wedding ring finger, she asked for me to get it done a few years ago, you couldn't see it under my wedding ring, but we knew it was there. It was always really special to her and she used to love looking at it when we laid together.
I walked past a tattoo parlour that did removals, so I had laser treatment to get it done!!!!!
Theres a 180 for her!!!!
My daughter laughed as I got it done, so my wife will know soon enough!!!!
Thats me checked out I think, I cannot change her mind and its time to move on.
