Well I got my answer - I went to bed at 1:00am. Just woke up - saw a text from my wife sent at 2:00am Just saw a text from W staying at a friends house - will be back in the morning.
M47 W45 D10 (Has CP) D7 M12 T14 ILYBINILWY 5/1/11 Asked for seperation 5/10/11 Seriously DBing 7/1/11 W admitted to 2 EA's on 11/3/11. Evidence of PA 11/5/11 - Definite evidence of PA 11/20/11 D - Final 7/11/12