Thank you for responding. Husband left today. I can't believe my marriage is over. I have now made myself open to meeting and dating. This mysery has been going on for 1 yr and it has to stop. One positive thing that has come out of this is that I have learnt what mistakes not to make next time. The sad part is that I want to be married and have children and that dream is slowly fading away. How are you handling your situation?
M 45 H 44 Married 9/09 Seperated 9/10 Not yet filed for divorce 1/11 - H meets OW in another state 9/7/11 - H tells me he is moving to another state on 10/1/11