Hi Gunny,

Thank you for responding. Husband left today. I can't believe my marriage is over. I have now made myself open to meeting and dating. This mysery has been going on for 1 yr and it has to stop. One positive thing that has come out of this is that I have learnt what mistakes not to make next time. The sad part is that I want to be married and have children and that dream is slowly fading away. How are you handling your situation?


M 45
H 44
Married 9/09
Seperated 9/10
Not yet filed for divorce
1/11 - H meets OW in another state
9/7/11 - H tells me he is moving to another state on 10/1/11