Are there any midlife women who want daily sex?

[ssmguy]

... that you *want* to have an open marriage and FWB arrangements,

And who wouldn't occasionally wish, or even fantasize, or even plan for that in my situation? You have essentially implied that that may be the only way I will ever experience sex again without getting divorced.

but in reality you just masturbate to porn and pay for the occasional strip-club hand-job or lap-dance.

Actually, not much into porn, it's rather boring. Not situationally interesting enough. Never had an HJ in a strip club, though I wouldn't mind. Had a lap dance once.

Thanks for making my only few outlets sound tawdry. What do you suggest? That I sit in a church and pray away the desire while trying to solve the problem?

In either case, take care and best of luck to you.

Thanks for your good comments otherwise. I think there's only so much that can be accomplished via this format, especially for someone like me who has already been through extensive therapy with some very good people. But thanks for putting up with my venting.