WAH bringing over divorce papers

[Long_Way_To_Go]

I appreciate your comments--they are very helpful. I hate to harp on the money aspect, but frankly it is all I feel I have control over. I would give it all up to have a chance to work on our marriage. It's just frustrating that he has gotten everything he wanted during this (space, time, fun, excitement, travel, OW, etc. without a word from anyone about how selfish he has been acting) and I have gotten none of what I wanted--just a chance (only a chance, not a complete recommitment to our marriage) to work on some of our issues. He gave it a chance for 4 weeks while still in contact with the OW, not exactly the best circumstances for reconciliation.

I appreciate the sounding board on this and feel free to give it to me if you think I'm completely off base--I can handle it. I'm trying to prepare for this conversation with him this weekend and if I am way too angry and hurt to be logical, I need to know.