Rick I'm not making any assumptions or criticizing your wife's and your arrangement. Just pointing out how Sandi's words fitted into my personal experience with men being "passive." Your milage may vary. Take what's useful to you. Hugs.
BITS Me-51, WAS-52 Kids 2 M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013 Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice. Love is a action and choice you make, every day.
