While that appears to be a good plan....

I'm not too sure that God sits on the bench for too many Divorce hearings...

It is the "hows" in your speak that concern me....

How do you plan to get there ?

How do you plan to get your own place ?

How do you plan to be that Father ?

How do you plan to move forward for yourself ?

I get that you want to be all of those things...the Father, the Husband , the parishioner....

What about you Sammy ?

When are you Sammy just because that is what Sammy needs ?


What I speak of, is an overall picture of the combined little things that will make a difference for you...

How do you get there ?

Maybe think about this one for a while ????