Man, I am so confused. But probably not half as much as her. 45min of IMs yesterday. Some snippets:
How it started:
Her: stared at your id for 10 min, what the heck, so i said hi. sorry
Me: :-)

Regarding her job - recall this is a very successful woman:
Her: i can't really perform/function in this area
Me: why not?
Her: too depressed, too much memory

Regarding a new position far away:
Her: Maybe I will go
Me There you go
Her: Do you think it will help
Me: I don't know
Subject dropped

Regarding a new position in an area very close to me:
Her: if I can ever move on/function and be able to perform around you.
Me: sigh, how about you set up a meeting with (very good therapist we both know)
Her: i will think about it. just don't think it will help
Me: Maybe not, but I don't think it would hurt
Her: When I was younger, I always felt that i could change the world

It ended with me saying silly things that made her laugh. What to do, what to do ....