My W has been threatning divorce since the begining of the seperation. Her venom was bad at the begining. The, it died down. Now that OM is in the picture, or should I say "Other kid", her spewing has amped up ALLOT! It makes perfect sense why she's pushing for the D. I want to give it to her but, under fair circumstances. She wants me to sign my life away on the spot.
HELLS NO!
She thinks that signing papers is going to give her that sense of happiness or freedom shes been craving.
My C told me yesterday "you have to let her go so show her that you love her".
Well, Im doing just that...
Im coming along in my journey. Im taking her spewing less personal and OM isnt affecting me as much as it used to. Im just concerned that I dont know him and he's hanging around my kids.
Her possible personality disorder really didn’t show that much at the beginning of this whole mess. What did show, was her being narcissistic. She’s got it and in a NASTY way! She is OBSESSED with her image and all the temper tantrums are there....Floor stomping, cursing, neck rolling and my all time favorite… “EVERY WHERE I GO, IM VIP BIATCH! PEOPLE HOLD MY HAND WHEN I GET OUT OF MY CAR!” She’s been overweight all her life then came the lap band surgery. Soon after, the tummy tuck and boob job. Now she’s got the image thing going, the new car, the new friends, OM, drinking, not working, full time student and her elaborate new vocabulary. I’m surprised she can kiss her mother with that mouth…
LOL!
Yeah, and she’s 38 years old.
She’s got
I’m told that for most, all of this comes to an end. When you are going through it, it seems almost impossible…
Me: 37 W: 37 Married Feb 14 1997 Seperated Thanksgiving weekend 2010 No divorce filed yet 1st born son:13 2nd daughter:9 3rd son:4 Trying hard to detach
