Hi there. Hugs to you, you are trying so hard to repair the damage.

You cannot MAKE her do or think anything. You cannot TELL her anything she'll believe.

If you read more on these forums you'll find everyone telling you work on what needs changing in yourself, and work on getting a life (GAL) on your own. It takes consistent change plus lots of time.

I've only been on here about a month, but I've seen lots of advice that is good here. Good luck and keep working on yourself. Take care,
A.

Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.