hey broken... don't think I've ever posted on your thread...
Time frames are similar for us, you're a couple extra years M and a month extra on sep...
My W is emotionally volatile right now, as well... she's desperate to get sep papers to me to sign off ASAP... I'll be sure to take due diligence on the docs... apparently I'll be getting the docs tonight when I pick up the kids and I shouldn't but actually have expectations that my W will react like yours did if I do not RUSH on signing off... I strongly suspect she has up coming plans and wants to "look" divorced ASAP... but she still avoids any discussion on filing D in a month...
She's been VERY pleasant and chatty and then LIVID and full of hate and now chatty and pleasant again... two cycles over the past seven days...
I always suspected my W had some PD from the moment I met her... and if true, it's showing STRONG through this WAS / MLC event...
Just wanted to say that I feel for you... you aren't alone...