I'm no expert but I have read that one should not leave the marital bed or the house. If you decide to relocate to another room it will be the same as storming out of the house as you did last week. Let her move into a spare room if she wants. Take a deep breath, a walk, and control those impulses. I am very similar, impulsive. Don't confront her with the information.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”