Really? You "wonder" if she has a personality disorder?!?
Stay the course amigo. Don't shortcut things regarding the legality. She wants it, let her wait to do it right.
She is spewing. Got that. We have all seen that, but don't worry it won't last forever. It does eventually die down.
It does help to better understand that she is batty. But let her marinate in it. You didn't start it and you can't end it. You have to protect yourself else she WILL take advantage of that.
Protect the kids and let W worry about herself.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."