Back home - but for how long?

[NYCPeter]

I know it's not DBing - but having the info in front of me helps plan next steps - No?

I won't tell her what I saw - but given this info, I'm not sure that sleeping in the marital bed is even a good idea tonight.

She did such a good job the previous few weeks of putting up a facade that things were getting better. I feel even worse about storming out last week as this has likely triggered these events.