That^^^^ is not DBing and you are making matters worse. Is what you are doing going to push your W further away or closer to you?
I know it is hard, I have snooped too when I never did before. My W bought a 2nd phone after I told her I was looking at the bill and who she was texting and calling. This happened when my stich started. She was really pissed. I found the 2nd phone about 3 weeks ago and looked to see who she is communicating with. I really felt stupid for doing that. I again saw it a few days ago and had the urge but stopped myself. Initially my W hid all of her phones, but latelty she has been leaving them around and I have not snooped. Hang in there
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
