QS thanks. I don't know if W was abused. I know my MIL is aloof and does strange things. I do know her parents have been separated for at least 30 years but live together. So I imagine her parents must of had arguments while she was growing up. W has denied that they argued even though I have seing them argue many times. Welived with the for a year 14 years ago. I also know MIL's mther abandonned her when a child and live in foster homes for a period.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
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