It's possible. Especially if your wife has had an abusive childhood.
Recognize that abusive does not just mean physical abuse.
Abuse can be one of five types: Rejection ( includes the death of a parent or divorce), physical abuse, emotional abuse, sexual abuse ( from outside the family) or incest.


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Me-51, WAS-52
Kids 2
M-26yrs, H.left 2009, 2 more Bomb drops, Reconnection spring 2013
Change is inevitable, personal growth is a choice.
Love is a action and choice you make, every day.