Also can I just say how appreciative I am of everyones advice and help here....it means so much to me and gets me through so many dark times. So thank you:
TG
CS
AC
Bond
Finah
Harrier
DG
Drew
Still learning
In shock
Ntxsaddad
Sandi2

And anyone else out there.....thank you.

M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011