Oh, Shiny...how painful for both of you.

What a "ripping off the bandaid" experience, no?

Seems as though you both have some old and new wounds still to heal...dunno...but I'm thinking that exposing them to air (as you did) maybe will help the process (not suggesting
making this a common occurence or anything...). Seems like you both know what's still sore? (His hurt over pre-bomb actions, your hurt over lack of PI, etc). Can this help? Seems like it can.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.