I hope your W will be ok and it is nothing serious. She sounds totally conflicted to me. One day rushing the D the next day slowing it down. I think you should avoid rushing into the D right now. Really what is it going to change? You are not going to wake up with your D papers and rush out and staring looking for Mrs. Right are you? I don't think having a paper is going to magically make everthing ok.
You are nothing close to being a pathetic man. You are kind and warm and have always been a great shoulder for me to lean on.
