SIGH... had mediation/arbitration scheduled for tomorrow, tried to avoid it by having the lawyers come to an agreement, which they did. Not a great settlement for me but I could survive it. Cancelled the mediation/arbitration...
...and from the lack of news, STBX is refusing to sign. Yay.
Sadly this may be due to me sending her a "goodbye letter" which may have angered her. I should have just kept quiet. By now I mostly just want this over so I can move on.