There are alot of us that haven't not been in this process a year so it's easy for us to project our fighting spirit on you.
So questions for you mostly.
1. You mentioned that in the past year you've been OK and that you've been holding out hope. Do you feel holding onto hope has been holding you back? Do you think it keeps you in the state of just being ok?
2. Your H says he wants a divorce but you don't want to. Other than stating that, what do you feel the benefits are of option 3? How does waiting benefit you?
3. Why would option 2.. be an option? Just because you don't want the divorce (which I'm totally with ya on it) doesn't mean you take H for everything? Is that your hurt or anger talking?
What would the D process look like? Do you think it would be "amicable"? Do you think show the new LWTG?
Sorry for the questions, just trying to get more info on where you are at.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
