She contacts me every day, but her hopeless state of mind has not altered. I need to find a way to get her to believe again. Then we can work on meeting the fam. Pressuring wont work, that much I know. There's already too much pressure. She somehow needs to believe that things can change, that it can get better. And it can, her mom dam near cracked a while back and we almost did meet. I can be a charming guy, and I genuinely care about people.