Accuray, Rick,

Your advice here is an asset to all. Unfortunately, I would never know how to find them. Not to mention they don't speak a lick of English. My Mandarin's not all 'that' either :-(

I don't think there's any hope on that end. So I need to focus on what I can do. On that note, she contacts me every day. I can tell she's struggling. I gave up trying to convince her to change her mind and instead suggested she talk to someone to sort things out. Therapy... I'm hoping if I back off and they continue to apply pressure, maybe she'll start leaning my direction.