Thanks vc, no my son had finished school for the day!!
So I get home tonight all chilled out and wife calls me, she starts to moan about the fact I have got myself a lawyer for the end of the divorce, she starts to tell me that it's going to cost her more money that she hasn't got!!
I said I was sorry but I had to get 1 to protect myself?? She was in a real mood about it!!
She slammed the phone down on me, so I drove to the house There she was cutting the grass with an old electric mower? She couldn't start the new petrol one!!!! I didn't offer to help!!
Then she starts again, the pressure she is under, money, bills work!! She is really struggling!! But again it's all my fault!
The last 5 years gets thrown at me again, drunk, moods, etc I again agreed totally, and said sorry , she was getting all emotional
She was on her own. 2 kids, etc!! I said that we should have sorted things out before now?
There was no talking to her, she was getting emotional, and angry, so I left
Not sure what to do??
Reality is hitting home big time!!!
I was going to ask, where were all the people who said for us to split up when she needed them??? Exactly, at home with their families!!!
I feel sorry for her and the kids, it's initially my fault, but she has pushed this and now look!!!
