NYCPeter,

The fact that "you are an open book because you are honest about your feelings and don't hesitate to show them" is probably hurting your cause right now. I'm the same way. Being that way *right now* in your relationship is not good, although normally in marriage it could be. Read the post below to understand why:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...833#Post2189833

--Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015