DG, I hope it isn't, too. Thanks for your concern.

Pros of waiting: it gives us time. Now, does that change anything? I still feel enormously betrayed and rejected, and I have no desire to reconcile with the person she has become. But I wouldn't hesitate for a second to take back the woman I married, and that's the thing of it...will our WAS's ever turn back into the ones we fell in love with?

Cons of waiting: just delays the inevitable. I want to move on with life, with or without her. I also want to get the messy, technical part of the D proceedings behind me.

So...I retain the role of kind, sympathetic man - or pathetic man, depending on your point of view - and wait.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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