I believe time will indeed tell. Nonetheless, I am having a harder and harder time respecting my wife because of all the nonsense she's pulling regarding our son and other things. If I haven't said it enough before, I'll say it again -- our son is more affected by this whole trauma than his mom or anyone blinded by hate and/or misinformation, and yet, my wife's actions (if you just read a few posts up) speak of entitlement, selfishness, justice and revenge (in a subtle sense).
You would think that spending two weeks with the parent he spends the most time with would normalize the frequency of our son's nightmares, right? Well, last night he had, at least, 3. My poor little boy.
I really want to balance out his life more with as close to 50:50 between me and mom, but she STILL will have none of it. My lawyer has asked me to consider getting her into an out-of-court mediation, but the way she's been blowing off my suggestions...well, you can probably guess how she might respond to that. Still, I will not give up or give in. I will keep asking her nicely and the more she says no, the more these "No"s will work against her in court.