Been DB for over a year and H has decided he wants to "go it alone" and proceed with a D. He moved out a year ago and in our state needed to wait a year before he is able to serve me with papers. Over the last year I gave him all the space he needed, didn't have contact unless he inititated, never talked about the R, was upbeat when I did see him. I did the best I could, but I guess he made his decision long ago and doesn't want to look back.
Now he wants to get together to talk about the divorce process, division of assets, etc. For those that have unfortunately gotten to this point, what is the best way to handle this? I have told him that I do not want a divorce, but what choice do I have but to sign the papers at this point? Any thoughts would be welcome.
