The pressure is really starting to get to her, that was obvious with last nights outburst, it came from no where!!
She just vented everything as my fault, I just listened and didn't argue, and agreed with what I agreed with.
I don't know where this is going right now, its been building since he arrived back on the scene, I really think he is putting pressure on her to take more time off work, to spend more time with him, unfortunatley something has to give!!
As I have said in the past there would be a "reason" could I have the kids and extra night, and I never refused, but since I told her that I knew what was happening she dare not ask me, or her parents, so she's stuck, and he's probably not too amused either?
I really do hope my being strong is the right thing to do, but I get the blame for everything now, so 1 more won't hurt!!
It was strange last night when we spoke that she told me that the isolation drove her away, he HAD to be in the back ground putting ideas in her head?
She told me also that they had only been texting until we split, what type of man texts a married mother of 2??, I think you called it right with predator!!
So for now I remain totally detached apart from a call later to speak to the kids.
I just called my son as he is home from school to see if he was ok, he said he was fine, his mum had just called him also and said that she would be home soon, and cut the garden grass!!, she won't be happy about that either!!! I used to pay for a gardner to do it!!! haha
