Hi Advina. The counseling thing is not going too great. We have only been able to afford one session with a real counselor. We have it with our pastor twice a week but that is more Biblical guidance than anything. But since we can not afford the real stuff that is the best we can do.
Today I feel like I am beating my head against a brick wall. My husband says "I am here aren'T I" when we talk about things and I express my concern about the lack of progress. He says he needs more romance, affection, etc but I give it to him and he is like a statue. There is no return on it. Everything I have read says that loving actions bring back loving feelings. He is never going to feel anything because he does not do anything in that case!
