lc4 and jb - thanks for the input and encouragement!!
I came to the same conclusion yesterday during my IC. When I told him the story, he immediately said that my W was probably lying on Sunday and that my D had moved on from the incident. He also said I handled the confrontation very well when I had my D sit on my lap and I explained to her that I was wrong for the name calling, that I apologized to the W, and that D should never accept that type of name calling from anyone.
Regarding the case, the ball is in my court to inventory all of the financials and possessions. It's a very long and tedious process and I hate doing it. It also feels humiliating putting everything down on paper for two sharks to fight over. I should be motivated to hurry it up so that I can finalize the case and stop the spousal support, but for some reason I am slow at doing it. I'll probably work on it a bunch this weekend.
Yesterday was the first day where there was ZERO contact with the W. Even on days like this past weekend where we didn't see each other, there would at least be a text or two. But yesterday there was nothing.
This afternoon I get to pick my D up from school and keep her over night. I cannot wait to see her. This is the longest I have gone without having her "home".
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012