By law you have to have the kids 56 days over a 16 week period. If you do not the person receiving the benefit must tell the agency, its the law......
You do not meet this criteria by a long way......
Sorry
This is not what I wanted......
M - child benefit is for the kids, not rent
W - Ok well I will let u know the date I will b moving back in
W - I will stop the CSA claim but don't go for D14 benefit otherwise I will move back in
M - U put these wheels in motion, not me
Have you heard nothing of what I said, what I believe is right and wrong, but more so
Who I am as a person
Saying u don't know y u did this......WTF
I have had my choices removed by YOU
YOU HAVE DONE THIS
What I feel 4 u means nothing now, how much lower can u possibly go....
W - I will call the CSa tonite and stop the claim
M - Do what u got to do, as u always have, no one has stood in ur way from day 1, esp me.
I have been criticised for defending u, but that's me.
I tried to make this work, everything, but no more
I love you still now, but this is the first time I have realised I can take no more.
W - I have called them and cancelled the claim
M - U are the one who said in your solicitors letter not to speak with u, but to go through them.
AGAIN THIS WAS YOUR CHOICE, not mine to start with.
After you nasty angry email last Monday I have still not received anything from your solicitors. I will be contacting mine in the morning to chase up and write to you about this.
And you don't know y u did this,
WTF
WHERE DID U THINK THIS WOULD GO??????
No solicitor in their right mind would have advised u to do this.....
What, did u expect me to do? bend over some more.
Now the csa are aware, and will want some answers
I TRULY AM SORRY
W - Well they have cancelled the claim, my solicitor is in hols till next mon, why can't we just talk?
M - "Well they have cancelled the claim"
And YOU expect ME to believe that after your constant lies, and going back on your word continually. Plus everything else you have done, no thanks, not worth the risk, I will respond.
Again, I feel I have no choice, what did u expect me to do FFS
Who are you, I don't know you anymore...........
W - If that's wat u think then so b it but the claim has been cancelled
Me - 37 W - 38 D - 14 S - 12 Together - 16 Married - 12 Bomb - April 13, 2011 W moved out - May 13, 2011
The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more
