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Me - Just received a letter from the csa.......

Think you need to be receiving the child's benefit for that, and you are not getting S12 anymore.........

So as I have said you have backed me into a corner I didn't want to go to.........

W - u won't speak to me

W - I wanted to meet and discuss things not go through solicitors

M - You have failed to stand by your word on Everything......

I have stood by mine, period. now I told u where I would go if backed into a corner.

When have u tried communicating anything like this in the last 2 weeks.

I applied for S12 benefit 3 weeks ago, so you can not get csa for him. Now I will go for D14's and maintenance.

I have also spoken to the benefit agency about everything and they said I should have both.

What a mess u have created

W - Not a court in the land will give u full custody over me, the minimum u will get is 50/50 u take my kids away from me I will take u to court

M - I don't want full custody how many more bloody times. Its not right.

U really have done it now, I have no choice, I have to respond, so I will be counter claiming, and applying for D14 child benefit.

I did not want to go there, and I don't know why u have done this, well to get more money.....

I HAVE NO CHOICE, U WILL NOT LIKE WHERE THIS WILL END UP

W - I can stop it if u want me too otherwise I will move back in as I can't afford my rent

M - FYI

By law you have to have the kids 56 days over a 16 week period. If you do not the person receiving the benefit must tell the agency, its the law......

You do not meet this criteria by a long way......

Sorry

This is not what I wanted......

M - child benefit is for the kids, not rent

W - Ok well I will let u know the date I will b moving back in


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more