There is something else that is puzzling me in reading through your old thread, SSMGuy. How old were you when you met your wife, began dating her, and married her? I can't get your timeline to make sense. You mention being in your mid-fifties, sex-less marriage for the previous 10 years, which would be from about age 45. What about the previous 45 years? Were you previously married? Single? What were your previous sexual experiences to your wife?

Somewhere I think that you mentioned being married for 14 years, sexless for 10, but that would still put you at age 40 or so when you met and married. What came prior to that?

-- B.


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007