I've noticed that myself in others R. I think you've hit on something with the low self esteem and feeling of unworthiness. I think on some level they really understand what they are doing to their families and LBS. How could one feel GOOD about oneself while destroying a family for very *usually* flimsy reasons???
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed