Earlier in your posts you would "own" an issue of yours and say you were going to work on it
but nearly always you would then follow up with something about HER that needed changing...and your concern that SHE wasn't looking at HER... that "scorekeeping" will defeat you.
Just focus on your own stuff in your own sandbox and stay out of hers. Don't make this about assignment of blame and believe me, that is what it was.
You must see that by now.
I understand you're covering all the bases, however I truly do just want to understand without assessing any blame. I could see me asking going either way, and your response lets me know that it could very likely be perceived as scorekeeping or pursuing the relationship. I certainly don't want to push her further away, especially since we've drawn closer.
Thank you for your response 25, I can count on you for honesty. I appreciate it.
As you've noted, I'm no longer correcting or pursuing her, I'm simply continuing to work on myself and our communication, as well as enjoying the time we have together.
Thank you again, I greatly appreciate your responses.
