H told me last night he wants to go out to ca, where we used to live and look for a job and an apt for us. His sister lives there and she told him that he can stay there for a few weeks if needed. I was surprised by this. Maybe now i can go home where there will be more resources. I'm happy with this....very happy as i have never been happy up here. Because he is in mlc, i will be cautious and let it settle in for him...he could change his mind. But last night he seemed very sure that going home is a good idea.
