know sure what to make of this

[NYCPeter]

I often feel that way.
I'll be around to look after the girls whenever she needs it because I am their father (actually I would do that voluntarily). I'll pay $$ for extra things because I am a good husband. I will move out and agree to a seperation so that she can feel less stressed because I am a good man (hang on - I'm not that good a man). It's almost like I am supposed to act like a robot and my needs don't matter anymore - they probably don't, but she still expects all of her needs to be met and if they are not, then that's why our M will not succeed.
Sorry W - I will do things that I think are right and good for our family, our M and me.