Wondering how to approach my W and give her a key to the house to come get her stuff and whether this is the right move.....very apprehensive about doing this.
Anyone had experience doing this or any thoughts??

Met with my IC last night and told her about the weekend and my W's reaction. She seemed to think that yes of course she is sad, but that doesn't mean anything. Its expected when going through something like this, there is always going to be some sadness. So I shouldn't read anything into it, and just take it as part of her moving on process.
So I guess back to most hope is gone. I tend to believe her, given I have spent a lot of time explaining who my W is, how she reacts to things, her history, her natural inclination to run from problems etc.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011