Your W is acting like an immature kid at a candy store when mommy or daddy doesn't buy them every single piece of candy they want.
Flat out.
If it were me.
I'd remove myself from the equation at this stage.
Let her deal w/ her life and her choices and her perfect OM.
You focus on you and GAL.
Once you start to show her that you are serious about what you say.........
I think she will slowly start coming around
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun