Compassion for a MLCer

[broken5150]

Hi Mach!

Ill take Sammy because he was my fav between him that other guy! ( I hate DLR) BTW, I own 3 Wolfgangs!

Ok, here is my confusion about the whole MLC thing...

If it was that she really got fed up with the marriage, would she be acting this way? I have seen people get divorced and NEVER go through these headaches.

But her actions and Sith Lord type hatred, is unreal. We have not been able to have a normal conversation in almost a year. When we talk she'll ask a question and when I try to answer it, she goes off in a frenzy and will not listen.

And will signing a D paper really bring her this happiness?

I think she is rushing it so she can go public with OM. She was always very concerned about what people thought of her.

Also, another thing that's a red flag for MLC is her slacking of responsabilities and VERY irrational thinking.

No, I do not blame all of this on her. Lord knows Ive done my share of hell raising in our M but, from the begining of this speration promising me that we will renew our vows and then now asking for a D? I dont think she knows what she wants or what shes doing.

I'll admit one thing that Im doing VERY wrong...

I tell her several times that I understand what shes going through and I know its confusing. But, I will be there at the end to help her pick up the pieces. She usually never responds to this.

Im always looking for signs of depression. I only see her briefly in the mornings and sometimes in the afteroon.

When I do see her, she looks very thin, tired and frustrated.

I hope there is an end to this....

If she really sees me as the source of ALL her problems, I have bad news for her... Im going to be in her life for a LONG time.

I GOT HER IN MY SIGHTS BUT, JUST OUT OF REACH....HERE WE GO ROUND AND ROUND AND ROUND....