I personally think she's making a lot bigger deal out of your daughter's reaction to overhearing you than what actually happened.
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And the ups and downs with before dinner, during dinner and then after dinner...that rollercoaster makes me nauseated!
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The FB thing is just silly. She was just trying to get a rise out of you. Don't ever mention it to her. I gave up FB when my husband and I separated in July (he has never been on FB and actually hated me being on), and I must say, what a RELIEF being away from all that drama.
Stay with no contact (other than absolutely necessary), detaching, working on goals. Stay strong; you are doing great, but she's really making things difficult for you!
Take care, lc4[/quote]
Thanks lc, I appreciate all of your feedback and agree totally!
I think you are right about the daughter's supposed reaction. I saw her last night for an hour and she was just fine.
I do need to keep off Facebook more... all it does is occasionally hurt me at best.
I do need to maintain no contact. It's only been 5 days and its helped me some already. And I think it's already getting a reaction from the stbx which I'll detail in a few minutes.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012
